HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY TO ALL๐
I have been thinking a lot about friendships, about my friends lately. This lockdown has really taught me the importance of people in my life and I am sure that you all must be feeling the same. This day takes me back to the time when we use to give friendship bands to each other in schools and then use to hide it so that we do not get caught. Nostalgic right?๐
From a young age we all strive to form friendships, to feel that special moments of "oh yes! you get me" and then unconsciously a life long friendship is cemented. To have those friends whom you can call without any fear of disturbing, in moments of need, fear, sadness or even celebration is a blessing indeed.
You must have heard this a lot that "friends are the family we choose" but for some of you the concept of a true friend might be vague or maybe some of you haven't found that one person whom you can rely on. But believe me, like relationships, friendships take work, hard work sometimes. Like relationships there are breakups, old friendship crumbles and, new ones are formed. This is life right? People grew apart and you meet new ones but then there are friends in your life who are there literally through your thick and thin, no matter what they stick around. My advice? Never lose them.
Also, some people do not have friends but they seek true friendship within their family. I can say that I am lucky to have friends within my family and the friends who are my extended family๐
These are the people who have always been there since my childhood for me, with me through my thick and thin. And I love you guys so much.๐
A true friend is someone who has seen you at your worst. When we are broken down and have no hope they are there to lift our mood. I won't deny there are times in our lives when we think that we do not have any real or true friend and we just want to be left alone but believe that is the time we need them the most.
In times like these when we are busy in our lives, we sometimes forget to keep in touch with our friends. But according to me, you do not have to talk to someone every single day. You do not have to put that much effort into your friendship every time. You do not have to change yourself just because they do not like you that way. That is not friendship. As they say that "A friend is someone with whom you dare to be yourself". And this is how friendships are supposed to be. You let them be the way they and you stick around.
So, what are you waiting for? Go call those idiots who you call friends and let them know how much you miss them and love them๐
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